Life is an journey. Your life will alive forever if you have hope for better tomorrow. So life can be named as journey to seek a success. Every one has different meanings of success story. For me especially this year’s success story is about finding someone I love.
This is more than everything that energyze every single work you do.
When you imagine her face smilling, it remember that some day you will together with her, sharing everything and making laugh and smile together. She is everything. Love can not be definited with some straight statements like what looks like in textbook. It has no logics but only can be felt. You always think about her, sometimes calling her, checking her recent updates for social media, and so on. All those are sign representing that you love her.
But, those all are not enough if you hope that she love you back. You must understand her clearly, you can not force your ego but you should not be her servant or “slave”. Loving each other is about compromizing and understanding each other, so it is long journey. Maybe now you click with her, but wait for she to click with you. Be patient and keep positive.
In the past time, some people said that “If you graduate from a prestigious university, you will easy to get a partner, you can choose someone you love and pick her to be married then”. She believe in you because when living together with you will create a beautiful life : everything will be fulfilled. Now, this viewpoint is shifting. Not easy for a woman to receive a love from someone even he know her since long time.
Nowadays, not money, title even position can bring her love to you but CONVENIENCE with you is one and only requirement that she needs.
This is logically wrong, but remember that love is illogical.
Someday you will meet someone that you feel awkward. Yes, because you have bad experience with him/her our you are ashamed when say “hello” to him/her and another reasons. Beside two reasons mentioned, because of we forget him/her name, we don’t greet when we met. My senior who works in Tracer Study suggests me that we must be kind to every one we ever known by greeting him/her when we meet on the street or another public places. This kind of “silaturahim” as recommended by religion. When you say greeting and he/she give you “peanut”, just keep slowly. You do this not because you want to to respected, but to spread peacefulness to people around the world. When you say greeting, you must have been smiling and it is kind of kindness, isn’t it ?
To strive is not just in persuing academics title but also in love. When you are click to someone, you must have more effort to make her close to you. Actually you do not know with the later result but if you do maximal you will learn something important. You will go to next level : if She says yes, you will get married as soon as possible, if not you will look for another woman. The formula is simple. So, don’t give up until the end of the game, just enjoy it. Keep striving and make it happen.